Thursday 3 October 2013

Emotional abuse/ family violence

Emotional abuse

Abuse that always happen is emotional abuse.Almost all the abuse cases happen at house,and the parents is the person who conduct the happen of abuse. Emotional abuse refers to the psychological and social aspects of child abuse, and it is one of the main causes of harm to abused children.
Emotional abuse happen is because the parent fail to control their emotion and the children be the victim.Some abuse cases happen is because the parents is superstitious by believe that the birth of the children will make them feel unlucky in life.But the birth of a child is not relevant with superstitious believe.Some parents undergoes some difficulty at their job and they feel stress to solve it,thus when going back home and saw their children crying they bit their children to release their stress emotion.The abuse can be using scissors,needle,and even hot water or any hard material like wood.

One reported cases that happen at china:
Ningbo,a place at china.


The 5 years old children inside the picture had undergoes abuse done by their father.
The child is injured at face by his father use scissors.
The children have temporarily been sent to the town welfare center/orphanage, and the father is temporarily living at the police station.Parents is the primary protector for their children but this had happen,how they gonna believe the people at outside won’t hurt them.the soul of the child had been destroy by their inhuman father.
Children is the gift of god but their father still done such inhuman attitude dude to failure of control emotion.


Childhood is a pure and should be caring with love by their parents, and their life should be full of happiness, playing, carefree, and full of hope for the future. But in the eyes of this five year old, childhood isn't so beautiful. All he faces everyday is his father's beatings; is the hunger in his belly; this is a face that does not dare to face other people's eyes; a face that sees other people having fun and playing, while he himself is locked inside all day.

A pair of injured bloody feet full with old and new wound. His father injured him by using needles and scissors.Even adults also feel pain when accidentally cut by scissors or needle,how can the children be suffer from this.

According to the report,their father had bit the both children include the children mother his wife,but his wife  leave away from the house and  left this two small children live with him.their father not even only using scissors and needle,knife also he use it.The father said he bit them in this 3 years everyday.The reason their father said is his children don’t know how olds is their ages.because of this reason the children had been bit until whole body full of wound.this will cause a big impact to the children.After the abuse case had be detect,the two children were send to the hospital to clean and cure their wound.The little boys had one big wound on his face and doctor decide not to give him the anaesthetic and stiching the wound.The doctor said
the wound will recovery faster without using anaesthetic,but this brave children not even had any tear drop off from eyes when the doctor cure his wound, could’t you believe how pain that he had gone through before until he can endure the pain of stiching without using aneasthetic .Abuse happen because of their father,as usual father should be the big tree that always be there to protect the children but this father had done a such big mistake that maybe will leave a big impact to his children when they are growing up.The scary memory maybe will follow the children for whole life.

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